So, let me tell you about a few of the things I really liked about Silverman's book:
- It doesn't set up unrealistic expectations for moms who are thinking about breastfeeding. Silverman lets the readers know that breastfeeding is not all bliss and smiles; it is hard and there are a few challenges a mom can face. But, at the same time, she clearly lets her readers know that once you get past the challenges it is soo worth it.
- From the Mouths of Moms: throughout the book Silverman inserts little paragraphs of quotes from moms about breastfeeding. It was really interesting to read other mom's views on breastfeeding and mothering in itself.
- Mama Data: Did you know that The Ancient Greeks say that the Milk Way was created through breastfeeding? I do, thanks to Silverman's inserts throughout the book entitled Mama Data, a great collection of trivia and facts concerning breastfeeding.
- Silverman devotes an entire chapter to how Dads can get involved. This is especially important to ward off those comments about how Dad "won't be able to bond because he can't feed the baby."
- Silverman's list of suggestive comebacks to people who make rude comments about you breastfeeding can fit with any personality.
There were a few things about the book that I would like to see change. The first is that Silverman seems to suggest that a baby will be ready to be sleep trained as early as three months old. Training a baby that young is not recommended, even by the so called sleep training experts themselves! I think what mothers need to remember is that there is no "set age" in which babies will magically begin to sleep through the night. It really is up to the child. The Mermaid slept through the night starting at four weeks old. The Guppy still isn't sleeping through the night and she turns one this month. Get the picture?
A second thing that I would like to see change is where Silverman mentions co sleeping. She states:
But be careful. There's a serious risk that a baby could suffocate or get hurt.
If the parents choose to co sleep and take all the necessary precautions, the risk of suffocation or injury is extremely minimal. In fact, co sleeping can be safer for the child than crib sleeping.
And finally, the third thing I would like to see changed is that Silverman states that in developed countries, "formula-feeding is considered a viable alternative to breastfeeding." Well.....I tend to disagree with this one. One is a living, natural source packed with all the antibiotics and other elements that is essential for baby's development while the other is a dead, manufactured source that is made with the cheapest oil available. Although I do see her point in that formula feeding is safer in developed countries than in developing countries, in my opinion it is not a viable alternative.
All in all, I would recommend this book to any busy mom and pregnant mom who want to know the basics of breastfeeding. It's a great place to start on their journey of knowledge through motherhood.
1 comment:
Hi Shelly,
Thanks so much for the review. I didn't intend to talk about specific ages for sleep training. Unfortunately, I think the grammar of the paragraph turned out to be misleading. I’m going to give my publisher a suggested edit for the next printing.
Andi
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